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Jan 15, 2006 22:54:42 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 15, 2006 22:54:42 GMT -5
lol. Fantasizing about Billie? Heck! Screw Billie! I want the whole group! lol... I said Screw Billie... I would like to! *evil smile* but, my friends don't know I've never had a boyfriend, it doesn't come up much. They all have, I just turn the attention away from me when they ask about it. I still feel left out, but at least I'm me, and not pressured into doing anything. And that's better I guess, because my friend got pressured into sex, and the guy left her a month later. She lost her virginity to that guy. She loved him. And he just left her. It makes me sick.
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Jan 15, 2006 23:00:20 GMT -5
Post by stars mystify on Jan 15, 2006 23:00:20 GMT -5
Thats one position I never want to be in. Some guys are really sweet, and will love you... but a good chunk of the guys in highschool just want you to have sex. I, personally, am waiting to have sex until I'm married. I would just feel weird having sex with a guy I know I probably wont spend the rest of my life with.
I actually just got asked by my friend Andy who my first b/f was, and I said no one. And he looked at me in awe. I was like "....what??" I got so pissed off. Thats all some people worry about is how many b/fs or g/fs they can get. Or how many times they can have sex. I heard this one senior at my school, her "goal" by her senior year was to have sex in the locker room shower. Nice goal.
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Jan 15, 2006 23:05:43 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 15, 2006 23:05:43 GMT -5
I know. There are a lot of seniors who graduated early this year because they got pregnant. It really does make me sick. I'm not necessarily waiting for marriage, but definitely waiting for someone I can trust. And at least not until I've been in college for a while if not after I grad. from college.
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Jan 16, 2006 8:04:45 GMT -5
Post by stars mystify on Jan 16, 2006 8:04:45 GMT -5
Yeah exactly. There's a sophmore at my school who's pregnent. She walks around with shirts that say "Baby on board." I feel bad for the kid.
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Jan 16, 2006 9:23:10 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 16, 2006 9:23:10 GMT -5
wow... That's kinda stupid to advertise that you're pregnant when you're that young. Some of our girls actually stayed in school, but they're taking like sewing classes and being smart about things so they can actually give their child something. There's this one girl, it's a rumor that one of our teachers is going to adopt her baby because she can't have her own. So, some good things come out of it I guess. But there are others who kinda brag about it. And those others still that complain about it which really makes me mad. It's like, if you didn't want a baby, you shouldn't have had sex. Now you have to deal with it.
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Jan 16, 2006 11:10:38 GMT -5
Post by stars mystify on Jan 16, 2006 11:10:38 GMT -5
Yeah, if people can at least make smarter decisions, like they know they got themselves pregnent, but at least they're not showing it off and they're trying to do what's best for the baby. I feel bad for the baby, I mean sometimes something good can happen, but most of the time when people have a child that young, they dont know what to do and the baby could have a miserable life.
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Jan 16, 2006 12:15:15 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 16, 2006 12:15:15 GMT -5
Yeah, my mom had me 3 months before her 20th birthday. She wasn't ready, but I was planned. I guess I turned out ok though. I mean, I'm not into drugs or anything, so I guess she did a pretty good job.
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Jan 16, 2006 14:04:37 GMT -5
Post by stars mystify on Jan 16, 2006 14:04:37 GMT -5
I have no clue how old my mom was when I was born. lol I know I dont my first child... i dont know ever. I dont really like little kids. I know that sounds mean, but growing up with two younger siblings has like... scarred me. lol
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Jan 16, 2006 18:02:16 GMT -5
Post by ilovejon on Jan 16, 2006 18:02:16 GMT -5
i've never had a boyfriend either
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Jan 16, 2006 18:07:25 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 16, 2006 18:07:25 GMT -5
lol. I'm the oldest... well, except for my step brother, but he lives an hour away with my dad. But it didn't really scare me... more like taught me how to live with them.
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Jan 16, 2006 19:25:52 GMT -5
Post by stars mystify on Jan 16, 2006 19:25:52 GMT -5
Yeah it taught me some stuff. But seeing my mother go through child birth... I dont think I could handle the pain and just everything. lol
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Jan 16, 2006 20:05:01 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 16, 2006 20:05:01 GMT -5
lol. yeah, that part will definitely suck. My pain tolorance is none. lol. so, there's not gonna be any kids before that changes. which, there wouldnt be until after college anyway.
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Jan 17, 2006 6:25:21 GMT -5
Post by stars mystify on Jan 17, 2006 6:25:21 GMT -5
Yeah pain and me dont get along so well.lol
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Jan 17, 2006 17:07:12 GMT -5
Post by ilovejon on Jan 17, 2006 17:07:12 GMT -5
lol
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Jan 17, 2006 17:46:45 GMT -5
Post by Veggi Girl on Jan 17, 2006 17:46:45 GMT -5
Lol! I love your sig Welcome to Paradise
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